The Denial Of A Child
The soul is the soft and sensitive feeling side of the small earthly self in both genders. This part is constantly trying to communicate with us by giving us some kind of feedback, the meaning of which is for us to decipher. Any illnesses, discomfort and diseases that manifest themselves in our bodies are invariably messages from our soul that something in our life is amiss and in urgent need of attention.
I feel intuitively that learning to work with the creative forces of the Universe in the above described manner could be good news for couples who would dearly wish to have a child but fail to conceive. There must be a strong possibility that this could be due to an inner spiritual blockage that has been created by a false perception of themselves and their roles in the act of creation of another being. Opening their consciousness and working on finding a better understanding of the processes of life may bring them the required healing that will make conception possible.
I believe that at least for some couples childlessness may represent the message from their Highest Self that, if they so wish, for them the matter is waiting to be approached from a different, i.e. more spiritual perspective. Those who willingly submit themselves to the learning and growing they are sure to find by undergoing this kind of experience there must be a strong possibility that in due course they will be rewarded by the arrival of a child. The great longing and yearning for an offspring in itself is always a signal from our inner and Highest Self that our problem cannot be resolved on the earthly level of life alone. Our God Self is part of the highest forces of life; it is always trying to coax us into entering into a new relationship with the Universe, to help us find an altogether more spiritual approach to all aspects of our own nature and of all life.
It is good to know that all things pass and that everything is constantly evolving and changing, and that this also includes karmic conditions. God is the only constant in all life and this is the authority who is alive in you and me, in everybody and everything, and who is waiting to be called upon to help, guide and protect each one of us from within their own heart. God is the small still voice of conscience that knows the way of all things. The love of God has provided that Karma is not something that is set in concrete; it is not meant to last forever, as many seem to believe. Nothing could be further from the truth! We ourselves are the living proof of this, because each new lifetime presents us with many opportunities for doing better and for resolving any outstanding issues we have brought with us from the past.
For people who desperately want a child but fail to conceive it is highly likely that their souls, together with the wise ones in charge of them, chose the very situation they are presently in as a way of helping them, that is their earthly personalities, to find their way back home into the realisation of their true nature and the oneness with God. I believe that for those who are affected by this predicament, the more intense their suffering, the more possible it is that for them this could be a preparation for a happy ending.
If a miracle is waiting to be worked through you, who would you be to deny it? What more wonderful proof could anyone wish for as a demonstration that with the help and the will of God all things are possible and all conditions can be healed? If you go this way willingly, a sign to the outer world and a demonstration of God’s power that can be recognised by even the most stubborn disbelievers may be created through you, to bring renewed hope for all others who are at present grappling with the same predicament.
If that is written in the great book of life for you and for them, then it will happen – irrespective of what any of the experts you consulted thus far told you. Against their word, I hold steadfast to my inner conviction that tells me what you truly need is healing through re-aligning yourself with your Highest or God Self. If all this is news to you and you do not know how to proceed, ask for help and pray that the way be shown to you.
Listen carefully and follow the guidance of your Highest of God Self from within. Learn to trust that it really does know what is best for you. Open your inner eyes and your perception for miracles. Unless you are willing to see one you will be unable to recognise one, should it comes your way. Expect a miracle! By believing that they can and do happen, we are helping them along. We declare our faith and trust in the powers of the Divine and are creating a channel through which it can work.
And let’s face it, could there be any greater miracle, magic and mystery than the processes of birth and death, or a more spiritual experience? Miracles are happening all the time. Yet, for a long time on our evolutionary path we take them for granted, because we still lack the spiritual vision and understanding to appreciate the creative power of God that is the true motivation behind all life. But when our inner eyes have opened, in this aspect of life, like in no other, the creativity of God reveals itself in all its beauty. The greatest lesson in humility is that as human beings we can only want a child, but we cannot make it happen. As nothing is left to chance and accidents and everything has to work in accordance with the Great Plan of life, God determines whether or not anyone is worthy of receiving the gift of an offspring and if so, when it should be conceived and born.
What greater power could there be than God’s? It not only controls our lives down to their smallest details but also brings new Universes, planets and solar systems and everything that dwells in them into being. It holds them in their places, moves them through space and – when they have outlived their usefulness – destroys them again, at will? That certainly puts our existence on this planet into perspective for me. One marvels at the magnificence of life that is almost too great to grasp for our small earthly minds. Then at the latest my soul wants to go down on its knees, join the Swedish Pastor Carl Boberg’s and sing:
O Lord my God! When I in awesome wonder
Consider all the worlds Thy hands have made.
I see the stars; I hear the rolling thunder,
Thy power throughout the Universe displayed.
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee;
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!
Recommended Reading:
• ‘The Sun in Scorpio’ – The Astro Files
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